10 Tips to Convince Others of Your Reasonable Beliefs

April 19, 2012 20 comments

Hold a belief that you really feel strongly about? Think it important to share your knowledge about something you have given a whole lot of time, effort, and thought to?

Below are some tips on assisting others to causally align with your strongly held, reasonable beliefs:

1) First and foremost, believe in what you are trying to convince others of, but don’t try to convince others just because you believe it. You want  people to align with something that you  find true or most likely true, but you want to have strong reasoning to support that truth (or likely truth) first. If you are unable to reason out your belief, and instead believe it due to an entirely psychological response or indoctrination, you may have some searching of your own to do before you should try to convince others of your position.

2) Lay out the groundwork for what you are trying to convince others of. You could have a perfectly logical structure to your argument (it could be entirely “valid”), but if there is not agreement on the premises that the logical argument is built on, the argument is meaningless. If a premise is wrong, your argument is not sound. Explain where your grounding comes from and why it should be granted.

3) Don’t be ambiguous with your word use. Clarify, clarify, clarify! If your belief is based on a word that you cannot clarify to yourself, maybe you shouldn’t try to change the minds of others until you understand the very word you are using. Try different words out instead. Some may make your point a whole lot clearer.

4) Don’t be insulted if people do not understand the case you are making. People have minds that have developed differently than your own. Do the best you can to understand which points of yours they are not grasping and try to put those points into different terms. Don’t be stuck explaining in the same way over and over if the person cannot parse the way you are explaining it.

5) Be careful not to be drawn into a drama debate. These kind of debates are unproductive. If communicating online, avoid turning into a debate monster. Rwaarrr.

6) Point out flaws in another persons reasoning, but do so tactfully. A good way is to, whenever possible, try to counteract your recognition of their flawed reasoning with something good they are saying. “I really like what you said here, but perhaps you could clarify for me this other point because it appears to me that it may conflict with X.”

7) Use analogies to help others relate to your points, but do not rely on analogies alone. They are of great use as clarifying tool but are not stand alone arguments. Also, be careful of faulty analogies that add in excess unnecessary baggage which skew a point in a direction it would not take if not for the excess baggage.

8) Don’t limit yourself to words. If you are a visual person with some artistic inclination, use that to your advantage.  A picture or drawing can help a person comprehend where you are coming from.

9) Watch out for fallacies in your argument. A single fallacy in the right place can strip all of the soundness from your position.

10) Last but not least,  don’t be a jerk to those you cannot convince. It is quite difficult to immediately go from viewpoint (A) to opposing viewpoint (B), no matter what kind of awesome case is given for (B). A change of beliefs takes time – sometimes days, sometimes weeks, sometimes years, and sometimes even decades. Sometimes you giving your case is just one tiny event that can lead another on the path to a change of mind. Consider it a long term process.

And sometimes your own mind might even change. Feel strongly about beliefs that are supported with evidence and sound reasoning, but do not close yourself off to new information that may arise. It is possible you have missed something along the way. You can strongly hold a position and still be humble.

Let me know what you think and your experiences with trying to change minds? Were you successful? Has anyone ever changed your mind? If so, what worked best?

5 New Animal-ishy Doodles For Your Free Use!!

April 8, 2012 17 comments

Remote Birdie
I added 5 new  (Animal-ishy) doodles to my website for your own personal (free) use: cat-like humanoid, headphone pup, ratty rat, remote birdie, and one I created for an older blog post a while back which I thought should be up for your use – chipmunk.

* I also colored another one of my older line drawings using photoshop and a Wacom tablet, …  just for the fun of it: winged fawn (color).

Visit: www.TrickSlattery.com/freedoodles

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I have also uploaded my doodles to a deviant art gallery if you prefer to view them there or want to comment on a specific doodle.

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Eeeek Trolls!!! 5 Troll Doodles for Your Use.

March 10, 2012 7 comments

I added 5 new doodles (Troll theme this time) to my website for your own personal (free) use: fancy troll, bird troll, internet troll, cartoon troll, and beer drinking troll.

* I also colored two of my line drawings using photoshop just for the fun of it: dragon, fancy troll.

Visit: www.TrickSlattery.com/freedoodles

Reminder: I will add new doodles to this site as I sketch ’em up. If you use an image don’t forget to link back to my site. If you want to be kept up to date on any new doodles that I add in which you can use, subscribe to my blog.

I have also uploaded my doodles to a deviant art gallery if you prefer to view them there or want to comment on a specific doodle.

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The Philosophy of Indie Publishing – Quality

March 7, 2012 6 comments

Indie publishing is doing a great job at removing the gatekeepers, at least as far as selling on the Internet is concerned. Anyone can write a book and publish it themself. But what of quality? Some suggest that it is those very gatekeepers that prevent poor quality. Certainly in regards to editing this is the case. There is hardly a spelling or typo error found with a traditionally published book.

There is a slew of really crappy self published books out there, and more and more piling up daily. How are people to decipher the crap from the quality? Some are afraid that the quality will get lost in the mess. It is a serious concern for indie publishing. Probably one of the larger of the concerns – and for good reason.

But I would suggest there is a new quality control manager in town pilgrim, and that is the book reader; and the tools that allow people to weed out the crap are available on the Internet. People just have to use them.

If we were to display two books to you. Both books looked interesting to you. In fact we will say they are of equal interest.  You know these  facts:

  1. One is indie published, the other is traditionally published
  2. Both books were rated by an equal and large group of people
  3. The indie published book has better ratings than the traditionally published book
  4. The two books happen to be priced the same (even though most indie ebooks are much less in reality as a large staff does not need to get paid)

Now given that #3 was not true, that both books instead had the same ratings, you may opt for the traditionally published book simply because you trust that the editing was done and you cannot be sure for the indie book.

But given that #3 was true, would it really matter to you that one was indie published? So much that you would buy the other book with not as good ratings? Of course not! You know that if people really liked the indie book there is a good chance that you may like it as well, and if people did not like the other book as much, there is a good chance you may not. You know that just because a book is traditionally published, that does not automatically mean you will enjoy the book. Even if it was perfectly edited.

It is the same thing with one indie published books vs. other indie published books. As people take a chance and read a new book just published, they begin rating. The more ratings the more one can get a feeling in regards to whether they should waste their valuable time sending a sample chapter to their kindle or nook.

In other words, reviews, ratings, and word of mouth really does trump all. And social media makes all of these easy.

Take movies for another example of how things have changed. I don’t know about you, but I don’t even bother watching a movie anymore without checking it out on a site like IMBD.com. If there is a large number of raters and the ratings are below a 6.0, chances are I am not going to waste my time watching it, unless, for some reason, there is something interesting about it that makes me want to watch it regardless of the not-so-good rating. The rating is the first thing I look at.

It used to be (“back in myyy dayy …” – said in old man voice) that if it was a Steven Spielberg movie, then chances are it would be good.  Now-a-days, if a Spielberg movie has a 5.4 on IMDB with 30,000 raters, that name does not matter so much. I probably will not bother except as a last resort.

Even before social media, good movies were spread via word of mouth. One person telling others how great a movie was, and those people telling others. Today, with social media, one person can tell an unlimited number of people. This is the model of the future, for many creative endeavors.

When it comes to books, as with movies, other people’s opinions are important. Not one or a few people, but a large group of people. This is different from when traditionally published books were allowed to be read due to a small minority of so-called experts that told people what they could or could not read. It wasn’t their fault. Just the nature of the traditional publishing model, companies will only invest in what they think they can make a profit off of, regardless of how well a book is written. If they did not think the subject matter fit into a very specific demographic, that book never had a chance. Good books. Great books even.

Now every book can be indie published, and based entirely on the public, either sink, swim, or float along steadily.

Indie publishing opens up a whole universe of reading that did not exist in the past, and a whole new way to weed out the poor quality (even an entire sea of poor quality).

And in regards to ebooks – usually for a cheaper price. People can still buy from traditional publishers if they want to. Hell, just look for ebooks priced $9.99 or higher and avoid all others. Your chances are high you will get a traditionally published book. But when you look at some of those “less costly” ebooks with just as high or higher ratings on Amazon, you may think: “Hmmm – Is this more expensive book really better just because it is traditionally published?”

And yes, if you are one of the first to read a book before others have rated, you may eventually read a  crappy one (Even after you have read the first few chapters for free on Kindle  – which you should always do first, even with good rated books).  But even with traditional publishing you take a chance on new books that no one has yet recommended. And you probably spent much less on that indie ebook, which means you wont feel as guilty not finishing it.

The rating systems at Amazon and Barnes and Noble are a good start. If, however, you don’t find them sufficient – you can browse or join a site like Goodreads which allows users to create a virtual bookshelf and rate or review books. Sites like these can give a person a far better assessment of whether or not they should spend their time and money on a book.

Quality control has not been removed with indie publishing, it have been moved; and I would suggest moved to a better system where the actual reader can determine what they consider good or bad, and decide for themself what they are willing to invest their reading time into. Once readers begin to recognize how to minimize the gigantic pile of poor quality books using available tools, this system will be better for everyone. It will not matter how large the sea of books gets, the good ones can easily be pulled from the sea.

Until next time.  Oh, and if you have a Goodreads account, friend me: goodreads.com/TrickSlattery

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The Philosophy of Indie Publishing – Introduction

February 20, 2012 13 comments

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Indie (Independent) publishing is becoming more popular every day. As someone concerned with the best way to publish my book once it is complete, I’ve read every book, listened to every podcast, watched every video, and read every blog post I could get my paws on within the last few years. Throughout this time I have developed my own take on where I think things are heading for the book publishing industry and why some publishing models will, in the long run, be better for both the author and consumer.

Technology has given authors the means to bypass the traditional route. The Internet is a game changer – and it is an exciting one for writers. Even though the industry is changing, and the stigma of “self” or “indie” publishing is diminishing day by day…there still is a lingering  group of people vying for the traditional route. Holding on dearly to the dream of having their book on a physical bookshelf for a limited time within brick and mortar shops. Shops that are getting scarcer by the day as more and more people buy ereaders and consider the convenience of online shopping.

My “Philosophy of Indie Publishing” blog posts will address various aspects of indie publishing (vs. traditional publishing).

Some questions that may be pondered and addressed are:

  • What are some of the pros and cons?
  • Why will the consumer be benefitted with Indie?
  • What does it mean that the author holds all of the rights to their book?
  • Does the author have to do more work because they have to do all of their own marketing?
  • How has the Internet changed the way people can bring their book to people?
  • What does indie publishing mean for time frames to publish?
  • How do we get around the issue of quality control if anyone can publish a poorly written book?
  • Who will determine the quality of a book if not some traditional gatekeeper?
  • How will indie publishing help with education?
  • How does it support freedom of speech?
  •  What does it mean that people can display their ideas and concepts with the only gatekeeper being the reader, rather than a small group of people who say “no”?
  • Are ebooks the future of reading?
  • Why will indie publishing be important for philosophers and the expansion of ideas?
  • What are some future possibilities for ereaders?
  • What of formatting and cover art?
  • How is indie publishing a better model for the environment?

…and a whole lot more.

This is the first of a series of blog posts on this topic that I plan to write.  Each post beginning with the title “The Philosophy of Indie Publishing – X” (X being the specific topic) will address specific questions or points about indie publishing. On the right hand side these posts can be filtered by clicking the “Publishing” category. Stay tuned!

Subscribe to my blog if this is a topic of interest to you.  I also talk about other topics pertaining to philosophy and the nonfiction and fiction books I am currently in the process of writing. I also post new doodles that you can use for free on your own blog or website, and plan on more free content at www.TrickSlattery.com. Here is another doodle I just put up on the site for your use:

moonfairy

moonfairy

Thanks for stopping by. Hope you have a spiffy day!

‘Trick

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5 New Doodles Added for your FREE use. Yippie! ;)

January 28, 2012 15 comments

alienbandI added 5 new doodles to my website for your own personal use: alien band, baby chick, big eared kid, boxing alien, and one that I had on an early blog post that I decided to add to the “For Your Use” site: dragon.

Visit: www.TrickSlattery.com/freedoodles

Reminder: I will add new doodles to this site as I sketch them up. If you use an image don’t forget to link back to my site. If you want to be kept up to date on any new doodles that I add in which you can use, subscribe to my blog. Also please keep in mind that the doodles I draw specifically for my blog are not to be used unless located at www.trickslattery.com/freedoodles. Of course I’m flexible on this. Just ask. Please link back.

Also, don’t forget to join my emailing list.  Every now and again I will send you an email with information about content on my site, etc. Emails will be sent infrequently so you will not be spammed. Later on I plan on making a section of my site with different content only for those that are on my email list as well (password will be sent to those on mailing list). I have some fun (and free) content in mind for the future that you will not wanna miss.

4 New Doodles Added for Your Use! Woohoooo!

January 8, 2012 11 comments

Smoking FrogSoo…I whipped up and added 4 new doodles to my website for your use: computer geek,  furry big mouthers, smoking frog, and bot controlling some thingy.

Visit: www.TrickSlattery.com/freedoodles

Reminder: I will add new doodles to this site as I sketch them up. If you use an image don’t forget to link back to my site. If you want to be kept up to date on any new doodles that I add in which you can use, subscribe to my blog. Also please keep in mind that the doodles I draw specifically for my blog are not to be used. Only use images located at www.trickslattery.com/freedoodles w/ link back. Of course I’m flexible on this. Just ask.

Also, today I added an emailing list to my website. Put your email in it and every now and again I will send you an email with information about content on my site, etc. Emails will be sent infrequently so you will not be spammed. Later on I plan on making a section of my site with different content only for those that are on my email list as well.